Learn moreSexual orientation is different from a person’s gender identity. Sexual orientation refers to a person’s emotional or sexual attraction to others. For many people, sexual orientation may change over time. Terms to describe sexual orientation include:
| Straight (heterosexual) | Attracted to people of the opposite sex or gender. |
| Gay (homosexual) | Attracted to people of the same sex or gender. |
| Lesbian | Women who are attracted to women. |
| Bisexual | Attracted to people of both sexes/genders. |
| Pansexual | Attracted to someone of any sex, gender, or gender identity. |
| Asexual | Not sexually attracted to anyone. |
During puberty, teenagers will start to experience sexual feelings. As teenagers explore these feelings, they may be attracted to people of the same or another sex. This does not necessarily mean that a person is straight, gay, or bisexual. As people mature, they become more aware and have a better understanding of their sexual orientation.
Some people are asexual, which means they may not experience sexual attraction or want to engage in sexual activities. However, they may still experience romantic attraction and feel emotionally close to other people. Some people are pansexual, which means they are open to relationships with an inclusive range of people, not just those who identify as men or women.
People do not choose their sexual orientation; it is a natural part of who we are. For further support visit the “sexuality support” resource page.
LGBTQ+ is a common acronym that people may have seen before. The letters typically stand for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer. The + sign is meant to encompass a wide range of diverse sexualities and genders that are not included in the acronym. Many people often use the word queer as an umbrella term to describe any sexuality or gender that is not straight or cisgender. The term Ally is used for people who advocate for (support) the rights of sexual and gender diverse people.
In our society, LGBTQ+ people may feel pressure to be straight. They often deny or hide their sexual orientation and gender identity because of cultural taboos and social attitudes. In some families and communities, people disrespect, bully, or are violent towards LGBTQ+ people.
It is important to respect and support all people, no matter their sexual orientation and gender identity.
Coming out is the process of acknowledging and accepting one’s sexual orientation and then integrating this knowledge into their personal and social life, including telling other people if they choose to. Coming out as LGBTQ+ can be scary and overwhelming, especially if a person is unsure how other people will react. Coming out is a process of self-acceptance.
Our society is learning to respect and be more open to all sexual orientation and gender identities. Support of family, friends, and the community is essential to building a safer and more inclusive society. To learn more about resources related to coming out and sexuality, visit the “sexuality support” resource page.